31 December 2010

2010


An intense kind of year, and one that I find difficult to remember, even though I wasn’t drinking for most of it.

The end of 2009, as dear Tot A has recalled, was a horrid one. This time last year I was driving through the snow to Cornwall, my belly still sore from the operation that I’d had ten days before, hoping that no-one would see me crying in the dark. Things went on in pretty much the same vein for the next 4 months, when we hauled ourselves off to the basement room at the hospital to start all over again. I can only apologise for those dark days, especially to my Tot and DJ S. I don’t think I was very easy to be around. But as he points out, we learned things from it, not least the importance of each other in our lives, and that this leap in the dark is one worth making.

May saw a return to form, with a weekend in Maremma with seven ladies, a lord and a licky little dog. Our exploits were extensive. I hadn’t laughed so much in months. Once back in London, we embarked on round two, a regime that forced me to get over my lifetime fear of needles, as I mercilessly plunged one into my belly every night. Again, as Tot says, the details will be divulged in our forthcoming joint blog (slash new memoir to be commissioned by my publishers), but it all ended up with me, legs akimbo, naked to the waist, as my faithful Tot sat by my head as a nurse brought in a tiny embryo on the end of a pipette and popped it into me.

Seven months later that little embryo is still inside - the boy that will become Nicolo’. I can’t wait to meet him.

What else? Well, the house, the house. They say that moving house, bereavement and having a child are the most stressful things in life (oh, and divorce - we managed to avoid that one). We kind of did them all this year. It’s hard to moan about the house, because it’s wonderful and I know how lucky we are to live there. But.... Broken promises, missed deadlines, builders everywhere, the smell of paint permeating every room, packing up possessions every two weeks and finding somewhere else to sleep. This was not the time to be incapable of carrying things. DJ S deserves a medal for lifting my bags and soothing my frustrations at not being to get out there and get on with it.

Like Tot says, though, it’s finally becoming home, and maybe in the New Year I can finally indulge those nesting instincts. The boy needs somewhere to sleep!

And in the meantime, I wrote a book. I don’t really know how that happened. I do know that amongst the hoo ha, and the running around between house and hospital, the library was, as ever, a haven of peace and tranquillity. The Albanian café next door fed and watered me. The internet worked. And so Spencer and Alice will be making their way into the world about a month after Nicolo’, between the covers of The Proof of Love.

All’s well that ends well, indeed…

5 Comments:

Blogger LeDuc said...

That's an utterly BRILLIANT portrait -- Beth's work? Although pregnant women is not one of my specialist obsessions I can't recall ever seeing a photo from that angle, which is clearly ideally suited to emphasising the pregnancy-related stuff. Pure genius. And beautiful. Love it. I think that should be the cover of your next book!

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Blogger albeo said...

Tots. This might go down as one of your best entries so far. As Le Duc says, particularly with that AMAZING portrait at the top of the page. Well worth a prize, I say!! Beth should enter it in some competition. And you look amazing. 2011 will, indeed, rock!!

10:36 am  
Blogger Tom said...

Resplendent.

And I have a feeling 2011 will be even more so.

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Blogger The Man Becoming L Monty said...

What a beautiful post. I am so excited for 2011 and that photograph of you is gorgeous.

9:20 pm  
Blogger ركن كلين said...

تقدم شركة تنظيف منازل بالرياض كافه خدماتها الى جميع الشرائح المختلفه وليست شريحة واحدة ؛فنحن نقدم خدماتنا المتميزة في رش المبيدات الى المنازل والفلل والمحلات التجارية والفنادق المختلفه
كيف تحافظ على نظافة اثاثك
لاتعرض الأثاث لأشعة الشمس لمدة طويلة , لأن الشمس تحدث فقدان المجالس لرطوبته الطبيعية .
اهتم باختيار نوعية الأثاث الذى تقوم بشرائها لتسهل عليك تنظيفها ايا كان من الخشب اوالجلد لان كل نوع من المجالس له طريقة تنظيف .
نعدك فى شركة تنظيف سجاد بالرياض بان تملك اثاث نظيف تماما كما سيبدو بالشكل الذى تتمناه له باشر بالاتصل علينا

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